8 Ways to Say 'Thank You Veterans' on Veterans Day

A veteran holds a POW/MIA flag
Rene Ramos, veteran and retired U. S. Navy senior chief petty officer, holds a Prisoners of War and Missing in Action flag during a five-kilometer run commemorating POW/MIA Recognition Day, Sept. 18, 2021, at the Heritage Park on JBSA-Randolph, Texas. (Senior Airman Tyler McQuiston/U.S. Air Force photo)

Veterans Day is an important day to "thank you veterans" as we show appreciation to members of our military, past and present.

If you're looking for an appropriate way to honor a veteran in your life, or would like to contribute in a way that's meaningful for veterans everywhere, here's a list of suggestions to start you off.

1. Say "Thank You Veterans" by Showing Up

Girl scouts at Veterans Day parade

Attend a Veterans Day event in your area -- not just a picnic with friends but an honest-to-goodness parade or service for veterans. Roy Rogers said, "We can't all be heroes; someone has to sit on the curb and clap as they go by." Veterans Day is a great opportunity to do just that.

2. Donate to Veteran-Focused Charities

Veteran at DAV event

There are a plethora of wonderful organizations that offer all manner of support, services and appreciation for our service members. To get a few ideas for veteran donations, check out these wounded veteran charities that have been impact.

3. Fly a Flag - Correctly

raising the US flag

Veterans Day is a great opportunity to fly the flag. Just make sure you're observing the proper rules for display.  Here are a few of those important tips:

  • Never drag a U.S. flag on the ground or let it touch the ground.
  • Don't drape it over the hood, top, sides or back of a vehicle.
  • Don't display the U.S. flag above any other flag, and keep it at the center when it's surrounded by other flags. 
  • Don't display a tattered or torn flag. Flags that are tattered and torn should be disposed of in a respectful way, preferrably by burning. 
  • Never use the flag as apparel, bedding or drapery.

See more tips at Military.com's guide to the flag.

4. Ask Someone About Their Service

Retired Army Sergeant visits

It seems like we all know someone who has served, and Veterans Day is a great time to ask them about their service. Learning more about their service can help you appropriately say "thank you."

Questions to ask a veteran

Here are some questions to get you started:

  • What did you do in the military?
  • How long did you serve?
  • What was your favorite moment in all your time in the service?
  • Did anyone else in your family serve?
  • Why did you go into the service branch you did?

Do not ask whether they've killed anyone, and should your veteran be a combat vet who is either unwilling to share or plainly states what they went through, be supportive without being intrusive. Sometimes you don't have to say anything; just listen and give them your full attention.

5. Write a letter to say "thank you veterans"

child writing card for service member

If you know a veteran, write a simple letter, postcard or email that recognizes them on Veterans Day. If you don't know a veteran, look up the closest military installation and send one there. Small acts of recognizing someone's service, even anonymously, are appreciated.

The military-focused nonprofit Soldiers' Angels organizes volunteers to write letters to deployed troops, veterans and their caregivers through their Letter Writing Virtual Team. Learn how to join that group on the Soldiers' Angels website.

6. Don't Confuse Veterans Day with Memorial Day

Veterans Day Parade in New York City

Veterans Day is a time to thank those who are serving or have served and are still with us. Memorial Day is to reflect and remember those who lost their lives in service to their country. Confusing the two or combining the two diminishes the importance of both. 

Learn more about Memorial Day vs. Veterans Day.

7. Visit a VA Hospital

volunteer at VA hospital

Find out what the policies are at your nearest VA hospital for interacting with patients or volunteering, and spend the day with a veteran. Many VA facilities will have events on Veterans Day or a special lunch you can help prepare. Even if you never interact with a veteran, helping at a facility is a way to give back and saying "thank you veterans."

8. Get Outdoors with a Veteran

veteran fishing at Lassen Park

Invite a veteran or a military family to explore a national park; admission is free for all visitors on Veterans Day. Being outside helps improve physical and mental health, boosts emotional well-being and is a great way to celebrate the day with a veteran.

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