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Ask Ms Vicki: Archives

April 27, 2012: On-the-Job Trouble for Spouse

April 20, 2012: Trouble at Home

April 10, 2012: 5 Reasons People Don't Report Child Abuse

March 22, 2012: Sacrifices Made

March 22, 2012: Benefit Questions

March 14, 2012: Departures and Troubles

March 06, 2012: Newlyweds

February 29, 2012: Marriage Woes

February 17, 2012: Sticks and Stones

February 10, 2012: Losses and Gains

February 04, 2012: The "D" Word

January 27, 2012: Restless and Worried

January 23, 2012: Separation and Trust

January 17, 2012: 5 Ways To Know When You're in a Bad Relationship

January 08, 2012: You Can't Choose Your Family

January 03, 2012: Spouse Support?

December 27, 2011: Spouse Support Difficulties

December 19, 2011: At a Crossroads

December 12, 2011: A Military Spouse's Life

December 05, 2011: Body and Soul

November 28, 2011: Deployment Brings Tough Choices

November 21, 2011: Money, Money, Money

November 12, 2011: Helping Hands

November 07, 2011: Cheating Hearts?

October 28, 2011: Oversexed?

October 21, 2011: Deployment Blues

October 15, 2011: Negative Behavior

October 08, 2011: Overdue Allotments, Over-defensive Husbands

October 03, 2011: Spouse Quandaries

September 25, 2011: Starting Over

September 16, 2011: Is Home Where the Heart Is?

September 09, 2011: Lies, Lies, Lies

September 02, 2011: Wicked Stepmother

August 26, 2011: Pain on the Homefront

August 19, 2011: From Both Sides

August 15, 2011: New in Town, Broken-hearted Wife

August 04, 2011: Baby Trouble, Anxious Spouses

July 29, 2011: Absence Makes the Heart Grow...?

July 22, 2011: Keep Your Friends Close, Your Enemies Closer?

July 18, 2011: Another Woman

July 10, 2011: Reader Responses

July 01, 2011: Marriage-breaking Deployment?

June 24, 2011: Spouse Allotments and Retirement Blues

June 17, 2011: Absent Boyfriends and Husbands

June 10, 2011: Phone Calls at Night, a Spouse Left Behind?

June 06, 2011: iPhone Texts, Separation, and Fear of Loss

May 27, 2011: Girls Just Wanna Have Fun

May 20, 2011: You Can Choose Your Friends...

May 16, 2011: A Widow's Nightmare, a Wife's Temptation

May 07, 2011: Money Troubles, Long Distance Relationships and Bullying

April 29, 2011: Deadbeat Dad, Basic Training Blues

April 22, 2011: Baby Help and Photos of Girlfriends

April 15, 2011: BFFs and Stalkers

April 08, 2011: Multiple Affairs

April 01, 2011: Fear of Commitment?

March 25, 2011: Extra Pay for Baby, Repairing a Marriage

March 18, 2011: Lazy Spouse

March 12, 2011: Overbearing Grandmother, Porn Addiction

March 04, 2011: Infidelity During Deployment, Alcoholic Husband

February 28, 2011: Spouse Would Rather Go to Mall Than Deal With Wounded Husband

February 22, 2011: Husband Leaves; It's Time to Call Lawyer

January 31, 2011: Cheating Husband

January 24, 2011: Monster-in-Law

January 10, 2011: Cyber Cheating out of Control

January 04, 2011: Arrested with Baby on the Way

December 14, 2010: Burned Out

December 04, 2010: Feeling Lost and Down

November 16, 2010: Broken Heart (Times Two)

November 04, 2010: Deadbeat Dad and HHG Threat

October 13, 2010: Husband Bails When House Burns Down

October 06, 2010: Military Life Good for Me and Wife?

September 30, 2010: Employer Refusing to Help MilSpouse and More

September 23, 2010: Housing Market Keeps Spouse Stateside and More

September 20, 2010: CG Wife Stuck at Home; and Benes Before Marriage?

September 09, 2010: 23 Years Married and Dropped at Retirement

September 02, 2010: Wife Punished by Command and More

August 26, 2010: Abusive Husband With PTSD and More

August 19, 2010: Can the Gen. Bring Him Home and More

August 10, 2010: Combating Deployment Guilt and More

July 30, 2010: Tackling Child Support Issues and More

July 21, 2010: Ask Ms. Vicki: Can This Marriage Be Saved?

July 08, 2010: Ask Ms. Vicki: Husband Cheating...With the Army

July 01, 2010: Advice for New Spouse; Death Tearing Family Apart

June 24, 2010: Wife Stuck in Rut; Steps to Become a Therapist

June 10, 2010: No More Money; Hubby Suffering in Basic

June 03, 2010: Baby Mama Drama; Need Advice About Military Life

May 18, 2010: Career Tips; Putting School on Hold for Marriage

May 05, 2010: Wife's Spending Threatens Marriage

April 29, 2010: Multiple Deployments Wearing Down Hubby

April 23, 2010: Unethical Behavior Irks Vet

April 14, 2010: Military Teen Makes Parents Proud

April 07, 2010: An Unhappy Homecoming from Iraq

April 01, 2010: Update About Son With PTSD; Deployment Woes

March 12, 2010: Spouses Won't Ask for Help

March 04, 2010: Reader Suggests PTSD Program; MIA Ex

February 25, 2010: Home-wrecking Soldier; He's Just Not Into You

February 18, 2010: Looking for Lost Father; Don't Want Hubby to Enlist

February 04, 2010: Two Sweethearts; Lawyer Problems

January 28, 2010: Dealing With PTSD; Tell on a Cheater?

January 22, 2010: Realizing That He's Gone

January 13, 2010: Help for Depressed Soldier; Tied to Soon-to-Be Ex

January 05, 2010: Dental Care for Grandma; Scholarships for Military Kids

December 12, 2009: Widow Gets Survivor Benefits After Remarriage?

December 03, 2009: No GI Bill for Spouses of Vets; New Military Life, Problems

November 25, 2009: Surviving Emotional Abuse

November 19, 2009: Staving Off Foreclosure; Getting Money Back from Ex

November 12, 2009: Staying Put When He Gets PCS Orders; Benefits for Widow

November 04, 2009: Addiction Ruining Marriage; Family Left High and Dry

October 22, 2009: VA Loan a Bust; Cancer Support Groups for Military

October 15, 2009: Entitled to Death Benefits After Divorce?

October 08, 2009: Advice for New Navy Wife; and Husband Cheating Again

September 22, 2009: TRICARE Woes; New Neighbor Looks Familiar

September 17, 2009: Infantry Elitists Rebuked; Over Deployment Drama

September 10, 2009: Should I Move Overseas if He Won't Marry Me?

September 02, 2009: Help! Need Money and Soldier is Deployed

August 20, 2009: Where are the Navy Benefits?

August 12, 2009: Get Out of Abusive Relationship

July 30, 2009: Infantry Elitists? Get a Life!

July 23, 2009: Pregnant, Dumped by Soldier, Now What?

July 17, 2009: Cheating on Deployments: How to Move Forward

July 09, 2009: Where are the Military Spouse Support Groups?

July 02, 2009: Stay Committed to Your Children After Divorce

June 24, 2009: Homecoming Hell, Please Help

June 12, 2009: Ask Ms. Vicki: Coping While Husband is Deployed

May 21, 2009: 6 Important Ways to Cope With Deployments



 
About Ask Ms Vicki

Ms. Vicki is a native of Dallas.She is married to an active-duty Soldier and they have three sons. Vicki has always had a gift for giving quick advice and steering people in the right direction. Her passion has always been helping anyone who is in need of advice and writing. Ms. Vicki has a Master's of Science in Social Work from the University of Louisville. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. Ms. Vicki will begin working on a Ph.D in the fall of 2009. Currently, Ms. Vicki is working on a host of books that will be published this year. The first book, "Restoring the Passion and Romance in Your Relationship" will be released soon. Ms. Vicki uses her intellect, clinical skills, passion, wit and humor to engage many. Currently, Ms. Vicki works as a therapist with military servicemembers and their families. She provides services for a wide array of concerns such as combat stress, PTSD, couples and marital problems, depression, grief and loss, stress and coping, etc. Ms. Vicki also writes an advice column "Dear Ms. Vicki" that appears in the Washington Times, the Fort Campbell Courier and the Heidelberg Herald Post. Ms. Vicki also hosts an internet radio show and blogs on her community site with the Washington Times.If you want to ask Ms. Vicki for advice about your military life, please email her at AskMsVicki@military-inc.com

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