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My Son Was Misdiagnosed With ADHD

Ms. Vicki

Dear Ms. Vicki, 

My son was diagnosed with ADHD by a pediatrician at a hospital two years ago. He was never very hyperactive, but he had a tough time focusing and staying on task while in school.

He was prescribed the lowest dosage of Concerta and only took it on school days. Then we began to notice a decrease in his appetite and a change in his personality. 

We stopped giving the meds and worked on organization strategies and how to self-monitor. 

Now we have a totally different kid. My son is very organized and can attend to different tasks that require long period of concentration. In addition, he is doing well academically.  

I've requested a re-evaluation because I think there was a misdiagnosis after teacher and parent rating scales for ADHD were completed. I believe my child was being compared to kids a year and half older and just needed time to mature.

I would like the diagnosis removed or at least annotated that my child is currently showing no signs of ADHD. How do I go about doing this? What do you suggest?

Sincerely,
Advocating Parent

Dear Parent,

There is nothing wrong in advocating for your child Hooray for you for acting on this situation!

You should be able to start the process to remove the diagnosis by requesting a new meeting to discuss your concerns.

Diagnoses are not final. The special education chairperson would be able to give you guidance in this matter.

Generally, parent and teacher rating scales are not the only determinants used to diagnose ADHD. There are cognitive and achievement assessments that are given to the child, a careful assessment that includes a history of the child and several observations to help with an accurate diagnosis.

In the school's defense, when a child is off-task, teachers know this will affect a child’s academic performance. As a result, they try to remedy the problem so a child won’t suffer academically.

I agree with your attempt to employ behavioral modification techniques to help your son. Many times, these efforts will be successful, but it will take a combined effort from parents and educators for them to work.

There is a lot of research that suggests ADHD is overdiagnosed when other factors may influencing a child’s behavior -- like a young child who is not as mature as other students in a class. I think you made the right decision. Please let me know what happens.

Sincerely,
Ms. Vicki

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Ms. Vicki is a native of Dallas, has been the Dear Abby for the military community since her column began in 2005. A licensed therapist and licensed clinical social worker, Ms. Vicki holds a Master of Science in social work and a Master of Arts in clinical psychology.

Ms. Vicki appears regularly on Military.com and in the Fort Campbell Courier. Her column has also appeared in the Washington (D.C.) Times and in the Heidelberg (Germany) Post Herald. She has been featured on CNN, CBS, ABC and NBC.

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