Transitioning Home: What Will be Your Legacy?

Military Transition

Sergeant Walt Ehlers was well known for his heroic actions on D-Day for which he was awarded the Congressional Medal of Honor. What he was much less known for was his continued service as a Department of Veterans Affairs employee and veteran benefits advocate.

A close friend of Mr. Ehlers once told me a story that I found more unbelievable than his self-less actions in Normandy. In 1964, the White House was planning to host a memorial service in recognition of the twentieth anniversary of the D-Day landing. A White House representative called the V.A. hospital in Southern California looking to reach Mr. Ehlers in order to invite him to the ceremony. The representative was successful in reaching Mr. Ehlers, but the phone call caused quite the commotion among his V.A. colleagues, "Why on earth is the White House calling you, Walt?"

After returning home from the war, Walt went on to work at the Department of Veterans Affairs for twenty years and he never told any of his colleagues that he received the Medal of Honor! It's hard to image that happening today. Talk about leaving behind a legacy of humility and service.

The most recent generation of returning veterans has been described as the "next greatest generation." Personally, I feel it's a bit pre-mature to label us as such.

What made our grandparents the greatest generation wasn't only their heroic exploits on the battlefields in Europe and across the Pacific, but it was also their lasting contributions to our society after returning home from the war.

Post 9/11 veterans have carried the burden of our nation's two longest wars, simultaneously, and have made unbelievable sacrifices that would undoubtedly earn the respect of seasoned warriors from any era. However, we are just getting started back here at home and we still have a long way to go before leaving behind a lasting legacy equal to that left behind by our grandparents.

The question that Post 9/11 vets need to ask themselves is "what do you want your legacy to be?" We can no longer control what happens in Iraq and Afghanistan. And it will take decades before historians are able to look back and accurately assess the impact of our blood, sweat and tears in the region.

What we can control is what's in front of us right now, and our ability to take the lessons that we learned serving our country overseas, and apply them to make our communities better back here at home. 

Many of us veterans are lost when we return home. We're not sure what to do and oftentimes end up chasing jobs, opportunities, and ideas on a whim only to find ourselves back at square one when things don't pan out our we lose interest.

Leaving behind a legacy doesn't mean building a huge empire or becoming famous. Mr. Ehlers lived a very humble life as a public servant and dedicated himself to a mission that he was passionate about and which served and improved his community as well as the people and family around him.

It is incredibly important for returning veterans to take the time to think about how they will continue to serve our country back at home. How can we take the unique skills that we learned fighting our nation's battles to make our communities better? What is most meaningful to us? How do we want to be remembered? How can we build and leave behind a lasting legacy for the next generation?

Our grandparents are without a doubt the greatest generation. Walt Ehlers exemplified the courage and selflessness that set that generation apart from all the rest. I like to think that we will become the next greatest, but we still have a long way to go.

Michael Abrams is an Afghanistan veteran and Founder of Four Block, a veteran career development program based in New York.  He is the author of Business Networking for Veterans as well as an Adjunct Professor at Fordham University.

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