Source: Department of Veterans Affairs
Veteran’s medallion's are available through the VA, which can be affixed to an existing privately purchased headstone or marker to signify the deceased's status as a veteran, will be furnished upon request in lieu of a traditional Government headstone or marker for veterans that died on or after November 1, 1990, and whose grave is marked with a privately purchased headstone or marker.
The medallion is currently available in three sizes, 5 inches, 3 inches, and 1 ½ inches. Each medallion will be inscribed with the word VETERAN across the top and the Branch of Service at the bottom. Appropriate affixing adhesive, instructions and hardware will be provided with the medallion.
Important: This benefit is only applicable if the grave is marked with a privately purchased headstone or marker. In these instances, eligible veterans are entitled to either a traditional Government-furnished headstone or marker, or the new medallion, but not both.
Family members of eligible Veterans interested in submitting a claim for the new medallion, can visit the NCA’s web site at www.cem.va.gov/hm_hm.asp. The VA will create a new form specifically for ordering the medallion, however, until then eligible family members can use the current Application for Standard Government Headstone or Marker - VA Form 40-1330. (PDF Format)
Be sure to Fill the form out completely with the exception of blocks 11 (Type of Headstone or Marker Requested) and 27 (Remarks). Leave block 11 blank. In block 27 put the word Medallion followed by the size requested. For example; use “Medallion 5 inch” to request a 5 inch medallion.