VA Offers Help For Domestic Abuse Victims

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One-third of all female Veterans report experiencing intimate partner violence in their lifetime.

Every single day in the United States, approximately three women are killed by an intimate partner.

Domestic violence impacts women, men, and children of every age, background, and belief. Nearly one in four women and one in seven men in the United States have suffered severe physical violence by an intimate partner. Veterans who experience domestic violence or intimate partner violence are deprived of their autonomy, liberty, and security, and face tremendous threats to their health and safety.

VA cares about Veterans affected by Domestic Violence (DV) and Intimate Partner Violence (IPV). We recognize the impact this has on Veterans, family members and caregivers and we are working hard to help Veterans and their families affected by this silent epidemic.

I want to assure all Veterans and their families that VA is committed to fulfilling its promise by establishing and implementing the National IPV Assistance Program. We will provide Veterans who are struggling with IPV with the best available care and treatment in support of their health, well-being and safety.

If you are a female Veteran and need information or resources about intimate partner violence or help with any other issue, please visit or call 855.VA.WOMEN.

Intimate partner violence includes physical violence, sexual violence, stalking and psychological aggression, including coercive tactics, by a current or former intimate partner such as a spouse, boyfriend/girlfriend, dating partner, or ongoing sexual partner. Partners may or may not be living together and may be the same or opposite sex. Domestic violence refers more broadly to any violence that occurs in the home.

Research has shown that Veterans are at greater risk for using and/or experiencing violence than their civilian counterparts, given the unique stressors posed by military life. In particular, those who have served in the recent conflicts in Iraq and Afghanistan may be at even higher risk, given the higher rates of mental health concerns, including posttraumatic stress disorder and alcohol misuse.

What are some of the warning signs of intimate partner violence?

  • Unexplained injuries
  • Delay in seeking care
  • Injuries during pregnancy
  • Suicide attempts
  • Excessive substance use

If you see one or more of these in a friend and you suspect he or she needs help, please encourage your friend to visit or call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-SAFE (7233).

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

In his Presidential Proclamation, President Barack Obama says, “During National Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we reaffirm our dedication to forging an America where no one suffers the hurt and hardship that domestic violence causes and we recommit to doing everything in our power to uphold the basic human right to be free from violence and abuse.

“While physical marks may often be the most obvious signs of the harm caused by domestic violence, the true extent of the pain goes much deeper. Victims not only face abuse, but often find themselves left with significant financial insecurity. And children who witness domestic violence often experience lifelong trauma. These heinous acts go against all we know to be humane and decent, and they insult our most fundamental ideals. We all have a responsibility to try to end this grave problem.”

During October, VA would like to raise awareness of the serious and widespread problem of intimate partner violence.

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