http://www.military.com/Military/NewDesign/Commentary?ESRC=opinions.RSS Military Opinions Center Saturday, 11 February 2012 5:20:04 AM http://www.military.com/opinion/0,15202,241500,00.html?ESRC=opinions.RSS A spouse deals with her husband's suicide, and another spouse's separated husband has moved his girlfriend on base with him. 2012-02-09 http://www.military.com/opinion/0,15202,241422,00.html?ESRC=opinions.RSS "It is my deepest hope that the Administration's inability to make this easy decision is not motivated by politics." 2012-02-09 http://www.military.com/opinion/0,15202,241421,00.html?ESRC=opinions.RSS A visit with a cancer survivor turns into a valuable life lesson. 2012-02-08 http://www.military.com/opinion/0,15202,241378,00.html?ESRC=opinions.RSS "I was told that if I was married for 20 years with 20 years active duty that I would qualify for former spouse if divorced." 2012-02-07 http://www.military.com/opinion/0,15202,241294,00.html?ESRC=opinions.RSS Dinnertime can be the loneliest time for separated military families -- but it doesn't have to be. 2012-02-04 http://www.military.com/opinion/0,15202,241293,00.html?ESRC=opinions.RSS Two readers write in -- one going through a tough divorce, another wanting to avoid it. 2012-02-04 http://www.military.com/opinion/0,15202,241226,00.html?ESRC=opinions.RSS Readers of Tom Philpott's Military Update "Sound Off" on the VA plans to go paperless. 2012-02-03 http://www.military.com/opinion/0,15202,241224,00.html?ESRC=opinions.RSS ". . . there’s a new-millennium blacklist for American patriots who fail today's political correctness test." 2012-02-03 http://www.military.com/opinion/0,15202,227804,00.html?ESRC=opinions.RSS Going to the firing range could be the high point of your basic training experience -- but not if you screw it up. 2012-02-02 http://www.military.com/opinion/0,15202,241103,00.html?ESRC=opinions.RSS "We must demand that the myth of the mentally unstable violent veteran be put to rest." 2012-01-31