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Bonding With Family Through Reading
Anita Tedaldi | October 12, 2009
Recently, I’ve discovered that my kids’ books have a certain power and charm over my children and me.

I never thought that I'd actually hope my daughter wouldn't fall asleep too quickly so that I could keep reading her books. But it's happened the last few years as we started venturing into exciting and more complex stories. 

I'm becoming obsessed with Nancy Drew. Maybe it's because I grew up in Italy and we didn't read Nancy Drew, but I love her, her father, her interest in solving mysteries and the way the books are written. Luisa, my oldest daughter, and I are reading “The Secret of the Old Clock” right now. It’s a page turner. 

Sometimes when she falls asleep I keep reading, even though I'm not sure I can justify reading the book to myself. Eventually, I stop and fight the urge to wake up my daughter to tell her that we have to find out what happens next. I always look forward to the next night when we’ll read together and find out what Nancy will do next. 

My 6-year-old and 5-year-old daughters also have more interest in a variety of books. Right now they love a book titled “The Human Body.” We look at it together and they’re fascinated by the vascular system, and even though the discovery that the heart isn't really shaped like a heart, or that the brain seems squishy makes them laugh and run around the house screaming that we're so weird inside, they're actually learning something.

Most importantly, they’re certain that they'll never become doctors, nurses, or people who give shots.

My 3 and 1 year old love the kinds of books that they can touch and feel. Sometimes we spend a long time reading the books’ flaps and going over and over the same pages. Their reactions are always the same. They laugh when they see a puppy under a soft blanket they can pull from the book page, and want to do it 100 times over and laugh 100 times over. Other times they prefer to make towers and stack the books one on top of the other. 

All of it is fun. It’s a ride I don’t want to miss even if I know most of these books by heart. 

Here’s a short list of great books children enjoy reading: 

Pre-school: 
“The Snowy Day,” by Ezrea Jack Keats 
“Harold and the Purple Crayon” by Crockett Johnson 
“The neighborhood Mothergoose” by Nina Crews 
“Animals in Winter” by Henrietta Bacroft
“Brown Bear Brown Bear What do You See?” by Bill Martin, Jr. 
Elementary: 
“The Lion the Witch and the Wardrobe,” by C.S. Lewis 
“Bridget to Terabithia,” by Katherine Peterson 
“Charlie and the Chocolate Factory,” by Roald Dahl
“Charlotte’s Web,” by E. B. White
“Blubber,” by Judy Blume

Middle School: 
“The Skin I’m In,” by Sharon Flake
“The Princess Diaries,” by Meg Cabot 
“The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants,” by Ann Brashares
“Star Girl,” by Jerry Spinelli
“Harry Potter and the Sorcerer Stone,” by J.K. Rowling

High School: 
“Staying Fat for Sarah Byrnes,” by Chris Crutcher
“Finn,” by Matthew Olshan
“Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix,” by J. K. Rowling
“The Perks of Being a Wallflower,” by Stephen Chbosky
“1984,” by George Orwell

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Copyright 2012 Anita Tedaldi. All opinions expressed in this article are the author's and do not necessarily reflect those of Military.com.

 
About Anita Tedaldi

Anita Tedaldi is a journalist and author whose work has appeared in the New York Times, The Huffington Post, The Washington Post, Babble.com, Yoga Journal, CNN, BBC, NPR, The Today Show and many others.

To find out more about Anita go to www.ovolina.com.