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Surviving Bad Dates
Diana Falzone | November 13, 2007

All of us have been on bad dates. Although they can generate funny stories to rehash with your friends later, why waste your valuable time with uninteresting company? Here are some types of daters that you should avoid to avoid a headache.

1) The Player:  This is the man or woman who seems to say and do all the right things. Be wary of their charm, they are professional daters. Once they get whatever they are after from you, they flee. You will not hear from them again. Although it can be fun to have a fling here or there, your heart and mind must be in sync with each other; otherwise you could find yourself disappointed and hurt. Date this type with caution.
 
2) The Serial Monogamist: This person needs to be in a relationship. Most likely, they recently broke up with someone and are frenetically trying to find a significant other to fill the void. Try to take your time getting to know this kind of individual. You want to make sure they like you for who you are. Sometimes serial monogamists overlook who you are just to avoid loneliness and you end up feeling misunderstood. Relationships are supposed to be long-term. Be patient and take your time.
 
3) The Cheapskate:  Dating is an expensive sport. You have to account for dinners, movies, show tickets, etc. However, there is always one dater who tries to get you to pay for everything. Whether you are male or female, if you continue to see each other past the first date it is only polite to offer to pay or split the bill. If someone always expects you to pay, they may be taking advantage of your generosity. Be wary of this sign, it may indicate that this person is a lifelong moocher. 
 
4) The Tell-All-Book:  A date is meant to be fun and a time to get to know someone better, but a date should not be a therapy session. Sometimes when people are nervous they divulge too much information about their childhood, family, or past relationships. Should you start to feel like Dr. X, make your exit. A date is no place for discussing a person's problems.

Lastly, if your date is being completely inappropriate (based on your own discretion) you can cut your time together short. I am all for being polite but once someone crosses your comfort zone, the rules of etiquette go out the window. Excuse yourself and leave. Remember, dating is supposed to be fun, even though it can be stressful at times. Try to enjoy yourself as much as possible. Hopefully, my tips will help you avoid a bad date.

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Copyright 2012 Diana Falzone. All opinions expressed in this article are the author's and do not necessarily reflect those of Military.com.

 
About Diana Falzone

Diana Falzone is a national talk show host for, "DeVore and Diana" on Maxim Radio Sirius Satellite. DeVore and Diana talk about pop culture, politics, and current events, and feature celebrity guests and best selling authors. Diana also hosts her own show, "The Diana Falzone Show" on Paltalk.com which focuses on dating and relationships. Diana has hosted for MTV as a red carpet correspondent, Fuse as a the host of, "Tip of Your Tongue" and as a commentator for the "F-List," the CW news as the entertainment anchor for the KXVO nightly news, AMC as a commentator for, "Date Night," Vh1's Best Night Ever and NYC-TV as the host of, "That's So New York" and "The City that Never Sleeps." She also can be seen as a relationship expert on Fox's, "The Morning Show with Mike and Juliet."

Check out Diana Falzone's blog on Military.com, My Wingman Diana, where she offers advice to lovelorn servicemen and servicewoman.

While still in her teens, Diana appeared as a lead in an off-Broadway show, "Valentino the Musical," and worked with the USO of Metropolitan New York. She graduated from the New School University with her BA in psychology in 2005. Diana is a member of the Friar's Club and the Society of Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center. Visit her official website www.dianafalzone.com for more information. 

 

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