“Where can I meet someone?” is a constant question among singles. But, fear not, folks. Whether you are new to military life or have been in uniform for years there are several places to meet quality individuals. As a starting point, I spoke with a few West Point graduates and with their help compiled a list of some of the best places to meet a prospective partner while in the military:

1. Meet someone at a club: Although in recent times, picking someone up at bar is an old cliché, sometimes we should not turn our noses up at potential opportunities.  If you are someone who is extroverted and highly social, chances are you will find someone better suited to your personality in a more active social scene like a bar, club, or lounge. Like in any situation, be sure to respect the other’s personal space. Should they not seem interested, take it as a blessing in disguise. They could have saved you from a boring date or even a troublesome relationship. Dating should be fun. Do not let it get the best of you. 
   
   
2. Attend social events: Make yourself aware of social activities going on around your base or town. You will be surprised to find there are many single events that are hobby-related like wine tasting, cooking classes, and sporting activities. It can be easier for you to meet a person when you are both engaged in a hobby of your choice. Besides being an excellent icebreaker, the hobby also increases the chance that the two of you have at least one common area of interest.
   
   
3. Take a class at a local college or university: Not only you will be bettering yourself but you could meet a great person to date. If you are older than the average college student do not worry. Many schools now offer continuing adult education classes that are available in the evenings or weekends. Take a class of your interest or go outside the box to learn about something new. Either way, you’re likely to meet new friends. 
   
   
4. Be adventurous: The world is your singles bar.  You can meet someone anywhere:  the gym, grocery store, library, train, plane, restaurant, coffee shop…you name it, it can lead to your fated encounter. This sort of unknown can be rather intimidating, but the pros outweigh the cons. No matter what happens, you are building confidence in yourself. You will not win all the hearts, but remember -- you only need to capture one.
   
   
5. Go to church: In a church you can find God and a possible soul mate. Most churches offer snacks after the service. It is a perfect time to introduce yourself to someone of your interest who shares your beliefs. 
   
   
6. Volunteer: If you are not religious, then volunteer for a cause or charity of your choice. I guarantee you’ll meet a ton of new people and walk away with some new friends at the very least.
   
   
7. Internet dating: There are many pros and cons of internet dating, but there is one common theme: You must be cautious and use good judgment.  Internet dating sites are a great tool for someone who is very busy or shy. Most of them allow you to view profiles and have instant contact with the person of your choosing.  Today there are several safe dating sites like Lovehappens.com, Match.com, J-Date, and Paltalk.

Finding someone to share your time and eventually your life with is not easy, but you should try to have fun in your quest. And don’t let the fear of rejection keep you from taking advantage of each new opportunity to meet someone.   

The world is waiting for you to say hi!