My husband is scheduled to deploy soon. I have found many books and resources [to help] military spouse[s] but none for my 5-year-old son. Can you tell me of any good books for military children regarding deployment? Actually, any children’s books related to military would be a great help.  

Bridgette
Fort Hood, TX
Active Army spouse; 4 years

Dear Bridgette:

We’d love to help you in your search for books for your child. A military child is a very important person. Don’t you wish there was a book or website that just explained it all to them or at least to us so we could tell them? As spouses, we tend to have an easier time expressing our feelings. Children are sometimes less vocal when it comes to the struggles of military lifestyle.

So, we have scoured libraries, both brick and mortar and virtual, to bring you the most up to date and relevant books for military children. We hope you find this list helpful in your “pre-deployment” conversations with your child as well as in everyday military life.

• "A Yellow Ribbon for Daddy" by Anissa Mersiowsky
• "Daddy Is a Soldier!" by Kirsten Hallowell
• "While You Are Away" by Eileen Spinelli
• "A Year Without Dad" by Jodi Brunson
• "Daddy, Will You Miss Me?" by Wendy McCormick
• "Uncle Sam’s Kids: When Duty Calls" by Angela Sportelli-Rehak
• "Making New Friends" by Jacqueline H. Blumenstock
• "Mommy, You're My Hero!" by Michelle Ferguson-Cohen
• "Daddy, You're My Hero!" by Michelle Ferguson-Cohen
• "Our 50 States: A Family Adventure Across America" by Lynne Cheney
• "The Blue Day Book for Kids: A Lesson in Cheering Yourself Up" by Bradley Trevor Greive
• "H Is for Honor: A Military Family Alphabet" by Devin Scillian
• "A is for America" by Devin Scillian
• "Dear Soldier: Heartfelt Letters from America's Children" by Barbara W. Baldwin, Amber Baldwin D'Amico, Heather Baldwin Duff
• "I Miss You!: A Military Kid's Book About Deployment" by Beth Andrews
• "The Five Love Languages of Children" by Gary Chapman, Ross Campbell
• "The Magic Box: When Parents Can't Be There to Tuck You In" by Marty Sederman, Seymour Epstein
• "Night Catch" by Brenda Ehrmantraut
• "Lulu's Rose Colored Glasses" by Gretchan Pyne
• "An American Flag for Their Father" by Annmarie Hickey Georgopolis
• "A Very Long Time" by Geri Timperley
• "Ned And The General: A Lesson About Deployment" by Ron Madison
• "Daddy's in Iraq, But I Want Him Back!" by Carmen R. Hoyt
• "When Is Daddy Coming Home?" by Richard Carlton Haney
• "Mommy, Don't Go" by Elizabeth Crary
• "My Daddy is a Soldier" by Kirk Hilbrecht
• "Deployment Journal for Kids" by Rachel Robertson
• "The Kissing Hand" by Audrey Penn
• "War? I'm Scared!" by WeWriteKids
• "A Paper Hug" by Stephanie Skolmoski
• "The Hero in My Pocket" by Marlene Lee
• "Footsteps Around the World: Relocation Tips for Teens" by Beverly D. Roman

Many of these books’ authors and publishers have websites that include additional material in support of military children and their attempt to make the most of military life. All of these books can be purchased through the FP Booklist found at www.fieldproblems.com/booklist.shtml

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