According to the CDC, an estimated 1.9 million children travel overseas each year. For those of you who think traveling abroad alone with a young child is crazy, read on. With a little organization, traveling overseas with your child can be a kid-event to remember forever.

"Come va?" the Italian waitress asked. "Sto bene, gratzie," my 8-year-old daughter replied without hesitation, "Margareita pizza, per favore." So began my daughter's trip in Italy - politely ordering a plain cheese pizza in Rome.

For a variety of reasons, I had to take my daughter to Italy for a week. It was a challenge, but in the end we had a spectacular time because we were prepared - and that made all the difference in the world. Since I don't want other parents to suffer like I did, I decided to write about my five planning categories: travel prep, personal effects, safety, communication, and the quintessential activity bag.

Note: The first three rules in our house are safety, safety, and safety (a hold-back from my navy pilot days). You'll notice the word "copies" throughout this article. Losing important paperwork abroad is bad enough, but not being able to get home or through customs because you've lost your paperwork is another story. When you leave for the airport, you should have three copies of all of your paperwork - just-in-case: one in your carry-on activity bag, one in your checked-in luggage, and a final copy with your family back in the states.

Travel Prep

1. Itinerary. Have your child help you map out where you are going and when is essential because it gives them a sense of ownership in the trip and everything else flows from there. You need to include where you are staying, points of contact, and phone numbers. The more detail the better in case someone needs to find you.
   
2. Travel Paperwork
   • Passport. Everyone who wants to leave the country needs a U.S. passport. Don't have one? Print the form (http://foia.state.gov/FORMS/Passport/ds0011.pdf), Get your passport pictures (local photo place), apply for your passports (http://iafdb.travel.state.gov/), and make sure you sign them when you get them two to six weeks later depending on whether or not you want to pay the $60 expedite fee. Already have a passport? Make sure you check the expiration date.
     
   • International Drivers License. I liked the idea of getting one just in case we needed to rent a car. All you need to do to get one is drop by your local AAA office with your U.S. driver's license.
     
   • Other Paperwork. Depending on where you are going, you may also require a Visa. Don't take any chances and check Foreign Entry Requirements before you go.
     
3. Plane tickets. Don't get your plane tickets until you have your passports - because airlines won't let you on the plane without a passport. To get the best price, buy your tickets well in advance. Be sure to ask for child discounts from your airline. FYI: The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends rear-facing Federal Aviation Authority (FAA)-approved, child-safety seats for children at least a year old and less than 20 pounds; forward-facing, FAA-approved, child-safety seats for children weighing 20 to 40 pounds; and regular airline seat belts for children heavier than 40 pounds.
   
4. Lodging. Finding the best place to say overseas with children is beyond the scope of this article. Obviously, your budget has something to do with it, but pools and bunk beds always top my kid's list.
   
5. Notarized parent authorization letter. Believe it or not, you need to have a notarized custody letter from your child's other parent/guardian stating it's OK to leave the country with them, and in some cases, to authorize medical treatment. It should state the guardian's name, authorization to take your child, in addition to where and when you are going. To be extra careful, I attached a copy of my spouse's passport and child's birth certificate to our parent authorization letter.
   
6. Currency. Although we preferred credit cards to buy everything overseas, we still brought $100 of the local currency before we left. I wanted to be able to take a cab or have a snack upon arriving in Italy in case credit cards were not accepted. You will already have enough concerns on your mind traveling with your child. Hunger shouldn't be one of them. Have an idea what the current exchange rate is before you go to the bank (www.xe.com). You may want to split your foreign currency between your carry on and checked in baggage.
   
7. Culture Homework.
   • Customs. Read and talk about the customs, language, and cuisine of the country you plan to visit (www.google.com) with your child. Besides getting reading credits from my spouse, my daughter learned a little about Italian fashion (to my regret). I actually learned about some new pasta dishes!
     
   • Political Situation. Research for country warnings on the U.S. State Department's website (http://travel.state.gov) and for any current country events at the country's U.S. Embassy website (http://usembassy.state.gov).

Personal Effects

1. Clothes. Weather and situation appropriate clothing topped our packing list. Italians like to dress up a little more than Americans so we didn't pack any shorts or tank tops. Your country's web search should help you with your clothes selection. I'd avoid that requires dry cleaning and let your grade schooler and older children help you pack. My daughter enjoyed helping me pick out my outfits. Think that's a little odd? Remember her interest in Italian fashion.
   
2. Walking Shoes. I separate shoes from clothes because you are well, traveling. Consider getting a nice pair of walking shoes for you and your child if you don't already have a pair.
   
3. Collapsible Laundry Bag. I have to give my spouse credit for this one. We packed a collapsible mesh laundry bag. It really helped reduce clutter in our hotel room.
   
4. Wallet Contents. Empty out your entire wallet on a photocopier and then copy the backside of each card as well. This will come in handy if it gets lost or stolen.
   
5. Pack and Repack. I think packing is an art and when traveling with a child, weight is a major factor. First, don't bring anything you intend to buy. Second, pack and repack. We packed to go to the airport a couple days before we left and then repacked the night before. The goal: reduce our stuff in half. For example, my daughter's future had at least one Italian t-shirt in it so we whittled down her t-shirts.

Safety

1. Medical Prep
   • Medical insurance. Double check with your insurance carrier if they cover you overseas. Depending on where you go, you may have to pay for treatment first and ask for reimbursement from your insurance carrier. Not covered? Consider temporary insurance coverage.
     
   • First Aid Kit. Whenever you travel with young children, you should always have first-aid kits in case of cuts - including Band-Aids and first aid cream and Motrin for potential late-night ear infections. Also, throw in your child's favorite thermometer to confirm a fever. You will want to bring enough individual prescription medication to get you through the trip in the original container in case you are challenged by customs officials. Knowing the generic...
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