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Thomas Jonathan "Stonewall" Jackson!

Thomas Jonathan "Stonewall" Jackson was born in Clarskburg, Virginia. His parents died when he was young, and he lived with his uncle who secured an appointment for him at West Point. He was one of the best-loved generals of the South. He earned his name at 1st Bull Run, when his unit was described as standing its ground like a "stone wall." His masterpiece was the the Shenandoah Valley campaign of 1862, a diversion that prevented the Union forces from reinforcing McClellan on the Virginia Peninsula. Many historians consider this to be one of the most brilliant military campaigns in history.
Stonewall commanded the loyalty and love of his soldiers. Lee praised Stonewall for his daring and improvisation in battle. He was one of Lee's most trusted commanders, and Lee was dismayed at his death, saying he had lost his right hand. Jackson preferred not to control from headquarters, but to be where the action was. In fact, when he died he was returning from a reconnaissance mission and was shot by his own troops.